Vicarious satisfaction - 替代满足(心理学正式术语)
Guilty pleasure - 罪恶快感(如深夜刷剧代替学习)
Delayed gratification - 延迟满足(棉花糖实验经典概念)
Faux fulfillment - 虚假满足(字面:人造满足感)
Cheat day - 作弊日(健身饮食中的"解禁日")
▪️ "I'll take a seltzer instead of soda."
(我要气泡水不要碳酸饮料)
▪️ "Let's do dark chocolate as a mood booster."
(用黑巧克力当情绪充电宝)
▪️ "I'll watch TED Talks as my entertainment."
(把TED演讲当娱乐节目看)
▪️ "Let me reorganize my notes for stress relief."
(用整理笔记缓解焦虑)
中国式替代 | 西方式替代 |
---|---|
喝茶代替喝酒 (Replace baijiu with tea) | 喝无糖可乐代替普通可乐 (Diet Coke as soda substitute) |
太极代替激烈运动 (Tai chi for cardio) | 冥想代替午睡 (Meditation over napping) |
Sublimation(升华):
"Channel sexual energy into creative work."
(将性能量转化为创作能量)
"When angry, count to ten in English."
(论语"忿思难"的英语实践法)
场景:深夜便利店
A:"Should I get instant noodles?"
B:"How about making oatmeal with honey? It's called comfort food upgrade!"
场景:考前焦虑
A:"I need to scroll Douyin for hours..."
B:"Try speed-reading joke books - same dopamine, half guilt!"
① 制作双语替代清单:
奶茶 → Milk tea → 花果茶 (Herbal tea)
② 记录替代成功案例:
"Instead of gaming, I wrote fanfiction in English."
③ 设计校园替代方案:
用背单词APP代替厕所刷手机
Remember: Life is about making swaps, not stops!