Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point.Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys.No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time.Problems do end.They are all resolved in time.
You may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your response. You can turn your pain into profanity-or into poetry.The choice is up to you.You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can choose how you will react to it.
The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it.When you control your reaction to the seemingly un-controllable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem’s effect on you.Your reaction to the problem is the last word!That’s the bottom line.What will you let this problem do to you?It can make you tender or tough.It can make you better or bitter.It all depends on you.
In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because they’ve chosen to react positively to their predicament.Tough times never last, but tough people do.Tough people stick it out.History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan.No problem is permanent.
Storms always give way to the sun. Winter always thaws into springtime.Your storm will pass.Your winter will thaw.Your problem will be solved.
-peak [piːk]n.尖端;山顶;顶峰
典型例句
Many mountaineers have reached that mountain peak.
许多登山家都登上过那座大山的顶峰。
最常用法
at the peak 处在最高峰
peak hour 高峰负荷时间
2.ups and downs 盛衰;成败
典型例句
The company has undergone many ups and downs.
这家公司历经盛衰浮沉。
-resolve [rɪˈzɔlv]v.解决(问题、疑问等)
典型例句
Her arrival did little to resolve the situation.
她来后也未能解决什么问题。
联想记忆
settle v.解决;定居;安顿
-compose [kəmˈpəuz]v.平静,镇静,冷静
典型例句
Please compose yourself;there's no need to get excited!
请镇静,不必激动!
联想记忆
composition n.成分;作品;作文
-solution [səˈluːʃn]n.解决;解答
典型例句
He reasoned out a solution to the problem.
他经过推断,找出了解决问题的办法。
最常用法
solution to 解决……的方法
-reaction [rɪˈækʃn]n.反应;反应能力
典型例句
I’m displeased at your reaction.
我对你的反应很不满意。
联想记忆
action n.行为;活动
-tender [ˈtendə(r)]adj.温柔的;脆弱的;纤弱的
典型例句
This kind of plant is very tender.
这种植物很脆弱。
联想记忆
gentle adj.温和的;轻柔的
-tough [tʌf]adj.坚强的;艰苦的
典型例句
Our leader has a tough will.
我们的领袖有坚强的意志。
联想记忆
toughen v.(使某事物/某人)(更)坚韧,坚强,强硬
-lifespan [ˈlaɪfspæn]n.寿命;使用期限
典型例句
Worms have a lifespan of a few months.
蠕虫的寿命为几个月。
每一座山都有巅峰,每一个峡谷都有深底。人生也有兴衰起伏,不会有人一生都时乖命蹇。难题总有了结的一天。随着时间的推移,一切难题都会迎刃而解。
你也许不能控制时势,可是你能够冷静应对。你既可以把痛苦转换为怨天尤人的诅咒,也可以赋予之以诗意,这全在于你自己的选择。时运不济的你或许无从选择,但是你可以选择应对的方略。
积极的应对只能是鼓起勇气着手解决。对于人生中看似无法控制的难题,当你能够控制自己的应对,那么事实上你就控制了难题对你的影响。你对难题的应对是至关重要的、最根本的。难题能对你产生什么样的影响呢?它可以使你脆弱,也可以使你坚强;它可以使你升华,也可以使你痛苦。全在于你自己。
归根结底,坚韧的人之所以能挺过艰难的岁月,是因为他们选择积极地去应对困境。艰难的岁月不会没完没了,坚韧的人会始终不懈,坚持到底。历史告诉我们,每一个难题都有始有终,任何难题都不会永远存在。
暴风雨过后一定是灿烂的阳光。严冬必然会化为春光。你的暴风雨也会过去,你的冬天也会回暖。你的难题终将解决。