There is always one true inner voice. Trust it.—Gloria Steinem
Sometimes it's hard to know who you are and what you want and whom you like and why you like that person. The answers change because you're changing.Growing.But deep inside, you are you.You were you as a baby, you were you as a kid, and you are you right now.“Let me listen to me and not to them.”wrote Gertrude Stein.
It makes sense to consider the advice and opinions of other people. But don't let their noise drown out your inner voice.And don't let the way you sometimes talk or behave in front of others make you lose sight of who you are when you are alone, when you are most you.
“You can live a lifetime and, at the end of it, know more about other people than you know about yourself.”Beryl Markham said. Get acquainted with yourself.Tune in to the dreams you have by day and by night.Blend in when you choose to, but appreciate what sets you apart.“The more I like me, the less I want to pretend to be other people.”said Jamie Lee Curtis.
-answer [ˈɑːnsə（r）]v.回答；答复；接电话 n.答案；回答；答复
典型例句
He knocked at the door but there was no answer.
他敲了门，但是没有人回答。
最常用法
answer the bell 开门，应门
answer the telephone 接电话
answer blows with blows 以牙还牙
answer sb.'s needs 适应某人需要
answer for 对……负责
answer back 顶嘴
联想记忆
reply v.回答；答复；回应 n.回答；答复
ask v.询问；请求
inquire v.询问；查究
question n.问题；疑问 v.询问；怀疑
-noise [nɔɪz]n.噪声；喧闹声；响声 vi.发出噪音
典型例句
There is so much noise in this restaurant, I can hardly hear you talking.
这个餐厅里太嘈杂了，我几乎听不到你说话。
最常用法
make a noise 吵闹
联想记忆
noisy adj.喧闹的；嘈杂的；吵闹的
sound n.声音
silence n.沉默；寂静
-alone [əˈləʊn]adj.单独的；孤单的 adv.独自地；仅仅
典型例句
Tom is not alone in finding Rick hard to work with.
并不只是汤姆一人认为和里克难以共事。
最常用法
let alone 更不用说
leave/let alone 不理，不干涉
联想记忆
lonely adj.寂寞的，孤独的；荒凉的
single adj.单一的；单个的
-choose [tʃuːz]v.选择；决定
典型例句
It’s up to you to choose where we should go.
我们要去的地点，由你负责选择。
最常用法
choose from（among）从……之间选择
联想记忆
choice n.选择；挑选
collect v.收集；聚集；募捐
pick v.拾；捡；挑选；采摘；找茬；偶然学到 n.拾；
捡；选择
select v.选择；挑选
总有一个真实的内在的声音。相信它。——葛罗莉亚·史坦能
有时很难想明白你到底是谁，你想要什么，你喜欢谁和你为什么喜欢那个人。你在变，答案也在变。你在成长，但在内心深处，你就是你。从婴儿到孩童，到现在，你就是你。“让我听从自己，而不是他们。”格特鲁德·斯坦因如是写道。
你可以参考别人的建议和观点。但是不要让他们的意见盖过你内心的想法。不要让你在其他人面前的谈话或表现方式让你迷失了独处时的自我，那时才是真正的你。
“你过完一生，在生命结束时，了解别人比了解自己更多”，柏瑞尔·马卡姆说。来装备自己吧。让你白天做的梦和晚上的梦协调一致。当你选择做事时行为要相称，但是要理解什么使你分开。杰米·李·科堤斯说过：“我越喜欢我自己，我越不想假装成为别的人。”