When to change the conversation? When they talk scandal. With some all goes contrariwise: their No is Yes, and their Yes No. If they speak ill of a thing it is the highest praise. For what they want for themselves they depreciate to others. To praise a thing is not always to speak well of it, for some, to avoid praising what's good, praise what's bad, and nothing is good for him for whom nothing is bad.

何时把他人的话反过来听？就是在他们散布流言之时。对于某些人来说，所有事情都是颠倒的：他们说"是"就是"不"，他们说"不"就是"是"。如果他们批评某物，其实就是对该物作了最高评价。他们想得到某些东西，就对别人贬低那些东西。赞扬某物也不一定就是说它好--有些人为了避免表扬好的，就去表扬坏的。有的人觉得什么都好，其实说明他觉得什么都不好。