Combine this with the obvious physical and lifestyle limitations that come with age and it seems to me that there are several activities to check off the bucket list before settling down to start a family .
It suffices for a young couple in a small apartment , though I know of one physicist whose wife left him because she was tired of repeatedly moving with little prospect of settling down .
" The key to ending the pattern of always bailing out is to understand the difference between ' settling ' and ' good enough ' , " she says .
她说,“结束这种经常出轨的模式的关键就是要去明白“安定”和“足够”两者间的区别,”
So as you can see , being a soulmate and being open to deep love leaves no room for " settling . " And I certainly wouldn 't want to be in a relationship with anyone who I wasn 't willing to be my full loving self with-really , what would be the point ?