When contradiction occurs , they should just get rid of complaints , violence and inhospitality and try to calm down , stating their thoughts and seeking for resolution .
当双方遇到矛盾时,摒弃抱怨、暴力、冷漠,尽量心平气和地坐下来表述自己的感受,协商解决问题。
Before my dormitory life was verry unhappy , so I 'm verry hate dormitory , but the fourth year in univercity , two girls came in , I was inhospitality at that time , didn 't want to communicate with anyone .