Next time your spouse is being a grump leave them be for a while , give them some space physically and mentally .
下一次你的伴侣发火的时候让其单独呆一会儿,给予其身体上和心灵上一些空间。
In his book the geography of bliss : one grump 's search for the happiest places in the world , weiner immerses himself in the cultural fabric of the world 's happiest countries to pinpoint exactly why residents of some countries , like iceland and switzerland , are so downright satisfied with their lives .