Every time elna baker hits the heavy-breathing stage with a new guy , she has to decide whether to lose her virginity .
每次爱尔娜和一位新对象进行到了呼吸沉重的阶段,她就得决定是否要失去童贞。
Sometimes programs are measured by how many teens take virginity pledges , not whether the teens stick to them , avoid sexually transmitted diseases or unplanned pregnancies , says rosenbaum .
Professor sabia 's results show that a girl does not seem to be distracted at all by losing her virginity - perhaps because young boyfriends are not competent enough to be terribly distracting .