I believe that experiencing " oneness " rather than intellectualizing it is part of our spiritual growth .
我认为认识到经验的统一性而不是对它做研究,是我们精神成长的一部分。
Conversely , for women , higher levels of oneness madeface-to-faceencounters significantly more persuasive .
相反地,高等级的同一性使得女性在面对面的交锋中更有说服力。
Instead of trying to disidentify from the ego , we need to embrace the ego while merging it with a sense of oneness .
不要试图从自我作出错误的识别,我们需要在把自我与“单一性”的观念相合并的同时,要去包容自我。
Milt and I were married for 39 years , until his death in 1989 . And all that time we experienced a love that erich fromm called a " feeling of fusion , of oneness , " even while we both continued to change , grow and fulfill our lives .