The key lies in our reactions-how we reenact , or restructure internally , whatothers say and do .
重点在于我们的反应---我们如何再制定及如何在在内心重建别人所说的和所做的.
Even though a phone call is no substitute for returning home to new york to celebrate these two momentous occasions , we 'll have to reenact the festivities during christmas time , when we meet up together in las vegas , ok ?