To be trustworthy means to keep confidences , not to denigrate a friend behind his or her back , to keep promises , to protect our friends , instead of taking advantage of them .
可靠意味着要有信心,不能在背后诋毁朋友,要保守承诺,要保护我们的朋友,而不是利用他们。
On the other end , we 've heard my former pastor , reverend jeremiah wright , use incendiary language to express views that have the potential not only to widen the racial divide , but views that denigrate both the greatness and the goodness of our nation ; that rightly offend white and black alike .