Researchers found women will quickly dismiss a man who they feel is ' too cocky ' or ' too needy ' .
研究人员发现,女人们会很快拒绝她们觉得“太自大”或者“太穷”的男人。
And one last jewish christmas custom-volunteering to work or help the needy so that christian neighbours can enjoy the holiday-trumps the rest , distilling the essence of the season .
The complete opposite of being selfish , being generous can be attractive as well because it demonstrates that you are not needy and that you are wealthy .
这和自私完全相反,慷慨大方也是能够吸引人的,因为那就显示出你不贫穷和富有。
The desire to adopt needy children from other parts of the world especially during times of crisis is not an exclusively american impulse but it draws together several threads in our national character .