In most of asia , marriage is widespread and illegitimacy almost unknown .
在亚洲大部分地区,婚姻是普遍的,私生也大多不为外人所知。
In the west the upshot has been divorce and illegitimacy .
在西方结局是离婚或非法。
Rather than raising kids in extreme poverty and with the stigma of illegitimacy , some asian mothers have chosen to put infants up for adoption , especially in poor nations .