In our society , the ideal self is bold , gregarious , and comfortable in the spotlight .
在我们的社会中,理想的自我是大胆的、合群的,在聚光灯下从容自如的。
Meanwhile we are so gregarious that social systems - whether you call them peer pressure or politics - reliably dwarf us as individuals .
此外,人类群居的天性又导致社会制度(你可以称之为同伴压力或政治学)让个体变得无足轻重。
The scientific endeavour itself is founded on values which natural selection would have seemed unlikely to foist on a bunch of violent , gregarious upright apes .
Mr romney might not be a gregarious backslapper , it was asserted , but he could be trusted to perform a corporate-style turnaround on a country adrift .