When someone is unkind to you , try responding with gentleness .
当有人对你并不友善,试着回以亲切。
For a long time , I thought of compassion as softness , as kindness , and as gentleness .
很长的一段时间,我认为同情是温和的,和蔼的,就跟彬彬有礼一样。
It denigrates and belittles the qualities needed to care , such as patience and gentleness .
它贬低和轻视了照顾质量,例如耐心和善。
But in some ways the gentleness - and the relentless cheerfulness - of the video may in the end make it even more of a challenge to the consumer society it satirizes .